Summer 2011

We have had an awesome and busy summer over here. We have seen lots of family, spent lots of time in the sun, and had lots of fun! We bought a zoo membership at the beginning of summer and have made lots of visits, including taking Benji's cousins a few times, we took Hakeai in between wedding activites once, and spent an evening with Maddy, Caden, and Jackson there too. We also went camping, boating, had lots of bbqs, and two weeks ago we took a trip up to visit Great Nana and Papa Overton in Idaho. We all had a blast spending time with Nana and Papa.

We got in late Friday night, then Saturday morning we went to the Idaho Fair. We sweated like crazy and visited a petting zoo there, had lemonades, burgers, corndogs and funnel cakes, then we came home and took naps, and I mean ALL of us. Then in the evening we visited a park and Mitch did some pond fishing...sort of. He got one nibble but did not catch a single fish.
The next morning we went to Zoo Boise then had a picnic lunch in the park. Grandpa and Mitch talked about ice cream all morning, so on the way back to the house for our naps, we stopped and got some shakes and a little ice cream shop in the city. That evening we went and visited with  my uncle David and aunt Kristi and my cousins.
My grandparents have two little toy poodles, and I wish I had taken a picture of Benji with them, but sadly, I did not. Benji was afraid of them for the first day, then after that he was chasing them around laughing. It was super cute. He had an awesome time and talked about it for days after we got home. We packed a lot into one weekend but man was it worth it! Here are some pics of our time spent in Idaho.

Drumming with corn dog sticks 

Comparing their goatees

Enjoying some powdered sugar covered Funnel Cake! mmmm

Off to see more animals with or without us..

Benji's dream plaything, his favorite animal and a huge slide in one!

We could not get him off this thing!

Back to blogging: Newborn Benji

So Mitch's aunt Amy asked me if I've given up blogging...and even though I don't think I have, I haven't been posting anything, at all. So I am going to make an effort to share more of our lives on our blog! Here are some pics of Benji, 1-4 days old. Its amazing how much of a normal little baby he looked already. He didn't have that wierd alien look lots of newborns get, maybe due to the fact that his head DID NOT mold AT ALL! 

As our pregnancy with this new little guy gets closer to its end, I have been thinking about what this delivery will be like, and what the recovery will be like, will it be a completely new experience? Or by some awful coincidence will this baby end up stuck in the NICU too? I want to try to make nursing work with him but I also know that I will not try to push it if things are too hectic. Breastmilk is the absolute best thing out there for a baby, but formula does not harm them. I was afraid to give my baby formula last time around because I thought I would be hurting him somehow, I now know from experience that those thoughts were full of bull. I have one perfectly healthy, happy, and very energized little boy to prove it. 

Today my world is changing...(A post started on Feb. 25th)

(I started this post on the day my daddy died. I used it in my talk about him at the services. As I was thinking about him and missing him today, I decided to come in and post it for others to see and spend a minute thinking of him with me.)

My dad, who is one of the most wonderful selfless men I know, is leaving us to go be with our Father in Heaven. My dad has been there for everyone, friends, family, strangers, you name it. When Mitch and I were both going to school and dirt poor, my dad came up with a solution for high rents and crappy apartments, he decided he would build me a house to rent. Sounds crazy right? Well, thats just what he did. From drawing the plans, to carpeting and tiling the floors and painting the walls, he did it all. ALL of it. Minus one or two things we finally convinced him to pay someone to help him with. Just as he did when building the home my mother and him shared with us kids and his parents, he worked tirelessly all day at his job at Workers Comp, and then came home and put in all the hours until dark he could fit on the house. His entire Saturdays were devoted to what big project he could finish on the house. For as long as I can remember, he was always like this. He fixed every car every time we had a problem, which was a lot, because he loved buying quick fix cars!



I think tomorrow I may post my entire talk I gave at his funeral for anyone who'd like to read it again. It's hard to believe he's been gone from this earthly life now for about a month and a half. I love that Benji still will point out "Papa" in a picture. It will break my heart when he forgets. We're getting ready to sell his boat soon. It hurts us all to do it, but we have no way to pull it and with all these little ones in our lives now, the boat isn't really something we can use too much right now.
I'm 10 weeks pregnant this week, and I constantly think about my dad watching over both my little ones. I know that he is and that he loves them so much. In life, he was extremely dedicated to his grandbabies. Maddy, Caden, and Benjamin were his best friends in the World next to my momma, of course. Lucas showed up a month before daddy left us and though my dad was very weak, the first time he held him you could see the love in his eyes as he stared down at that little newborn.

I love you and miss you dad.

Thanksgiving, Snow time, and Benji's 1st Haircut!

 I can hardly keep up with this kid anymore! Now that Benjamin is walking like a pro, he is everywhere. His personal favorite things to do include; opening kitchen drawers, climbing into kitchen drawers, pulling everything out of kitchen drawers, walking away with contents of kitchen drawers and hiding them, running over whenever mommy opens the fridge and climbing on in, taking heater vent covers off and dropping anything he can find into them, whimpering everytime he trips so that mommy will say "Are you ok?", running over to the basement and front doors whenever someone looks as if they might be headed that way and then throwing a huge fit when not given the opportunity to either go outside or play on the staircase. In other words, finding lots of funny ways to drive mommy nuts!
On the other hand, he has found many extra irresistible things to start doing to balance the scales, these include; constantly pointing at things and asking "eh?", dancing to anything that could possibly be or turn into a beat, finding every opportunity to come up to me, lay his head on me and give me a big hug (which includes pats from each hand), big sweet open mouthed (but only for mommy, everyone else is offered the cheek) kisses in multiples, fetching his blanket through the crib bars from outside it and wandering around holding the softness to his cheek, laughing whenever one of us comes into view from another room, excitedly running away laughing when we come closer, listening very carefully to us when he's told "no no" about something we don't want him to touch and then asking/affirming "no no" by waving his arm back and forth at the same something and grunting in a serious way at it and looking back to us for assurance, driving cars all over the house with engine noises, imitating me clearing my throat,  asking for his milk with a sign, and then continually surprising us by adding signs like "more" "bath" "please" when we think he's totally forgotten us teaching him them, getting excited and then waiting patiently when I start putting on his jacket and shoes... Oh the list could go ON and ON!
So, because his pros outweigh his cons, I guess I'll keep him around!

Benji loves the Snow! We took him outiside after our first big snowfall, all decked out in his snow gear and he couldn't get enough. He couldn't walk in it very well but he really enjoyed sitting in it and sweeping it around with his mittens...that is until they got snow in them!

Benj and his 2nd cousin Jared

This year for Thanksgiving we planned on making it to 3 dinners, we went to my Aunt Tammy's for the 1st one, then stopped by the Tongan side for the 2nd, and were exhausted at that point and were running too late to make it to the Harward side.

Benji, me, and his 2nd cousin Elias

Maddy playing with Benji, I believe she is being his puppy.

We had a great day though and on the weekend got to spend time with my sister Jana from AZ and her family. Benjamin just adores his older cousin Maddy, who is 5, and she adores him right back. It is so fun to watch them interact. She loves to play with him and read to him, and he gives her lots of hugs and sometimes even wants her to hold him!



Also, we cut Benji's hair about a week ago and we just can't get enough of how cute he is! His short hair makes him look like a big toddler and has really brought out the light in his hair even more so!
I have been busy with Christmas shopping and planning a lot of homemade gifts this year, so as I finish them I will post them! Have a great December!

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Birthday Time!

Benjamin turned the BIG ONE a few weeks ago! I can't believe our little Benji has been with us for 12 whole months already! It seems like it was only a few days ago that I was wishing they would just let us take him home, and then getting home and realizing that the being up all night was going to last the rest of my life! Boy am I glad that was so short, it is only 3 months but it feels like an eternity when you're in it!

Benjamin has been such an amazing blessing in our lives. Everyday he makes us laugh, feel sad (for him), want to purchase ear muffs or tear our hair out, and love him unmeasurably.  He has changed so much in such a short amount of time. He is walking around now like crazy, he started the day before his birthday party. It is just about the cutest thing I've ever seen, when he falls, he just picks himself right back up and walks again. He drives cars around making "bbbbbbbppp" sounds, he signs eat/food anytime he sees anything he might like to try, he drinks cows milk like a pro, and gives mommy big open mouthed kisses often. When asked for a kiss by daddy or anyone else, he offers his cheek or head. He hugs and kisses his toys, but also swats at them when he's feeling tired and onery. He gives big squinty eye, cheesy grins when I get out the camera, see first picture for example (don't ask me how he figured that out!). He adores his cousin Maddy for some reason (dispite her mothers disclaimers, Maddy believes that she will marry Benjamin in the temple when they grow up, Lol! ) and always thinks all kids want to be his buddies. He is still very tall and skinny, with a big head. He's 8th percentile for weight, 80th for height and 80th for his head.

For Benji's party we had a big baby dino themed bash with Tongan food and a huge cake.  His wonderful cousins danced and he got loads of presents and a pretty good amount of cash for such a little guy. We are so lucky to have such amazing family who love and support our son so much! I'll have to blog later about the different things I did for his party to tie it all together. It was a lot of fun!